12-14-11
Familia,
Hey all! Well, its been a pretty eventful week. I'm not
really sure where to start, especially because I know that once I write it all
down it really will not actually seem that eventful.
I guess firstly, Sotero was baptized on Friday. And oh my
goodness, it was the most stressful thing ever. Firstly, he wanted Hna Maughan
to give one of the talks at his baptism. But, the Bishop told us he doesn't
want us to talk, he wants members to have the opportunity to do it. So we
called Sotero, and told him that and he said that was fine. BUT when we went
over to their house on Thursday for dinner he told us he didn't know if he
wanted to get baptized if Hna Maughan wasn't going to speak. Oh man, and he was
being so stubborn and his MEMBER kids were not being any help either because
they really wanted her to speak too. I was SO frustrated. I basically laid it
down really blunt and told him that this was his salvation and it didn't
freaking matter who talked in his baptism, the only thing that mattered was if
he had a testimony and knew he needed to get baptized, which he does, and then
doing it. So FINALLY we compromised that Hna Maughan and I would sing a song,
and she wouldn't talk, and he would still get baptized. Okay- next stressful
thing that happened with this baptism. Last Sunday Sotero told us he didn't
have a ride to the baptism, and he lives like 30 minutes away from the church.
Luckily when we brought up the problem in ward council, someone said they could
pick Sotero and his son up. They even called us Friday at 5 oclock and told us
that everything was still okay, and they were still planning on bringing Sotero
for his baptism at 7. So Hna Maughan and I are getting the baptism all set up,
and then it hits 6:30 when Sotero is supposed to be there and he's not there.
We wait a little longer, and 6:45 rolls around and still nothing. So we call
him, and what does he tell us? That nobody has come to pick him up!! We called
the family that was supposed to pick them up about 100 times and they didn't
answer. While this is going on the Bishop's wife shows up and tells us, oh,
Bishop is picking them up. Apparently the family that was supposed to pick
Sotero up ended up not being able to, and instead of letting us know, called
the Bishop. So we call Bishop, and tells
us he has been lost for like the last half hour, but rather than calling anyone
to get help he just kept trying to find it himself. FINALLY at about 7:00 he finds their
apartment, and we call Sotero to let him know Bishop is outside. and what does
Sotero tell us? Its too late, that he can't get baptized because he is late. So
after some very firm talking to, he was finally in the car and on the way to
the church. He arrived and the baptism only started 30 minutes late. Smooth
sailing from there, right? Wrong. The talks all go fine, Hna Maughan and I
succesfully butcher a primary song, and then its time for the ordinance.
Sotero's son Nolberto was baptizing him, and Nolberto has only been a member
for a couple of months, so he was really nervous. So he had to do the pray
about three times before getting it right, and then he goes to lower Sotero
into the water and Sotero gets nervous or something and completely stiffens up
and won't let him put him all the way under. So we have to try it again, a few
more prayers and another try to put him under the water. AGAIN he got nervous
and wouldn't relax enough to go all the way under. Once again we go through the
prayer, and Nolberto trys to immerse him in the water, and Sotero still is
being stiff, but everyone just started yelling, "All the way! Just push
him all the way down! Just do it!!" So Nolberto just shoved Sotero into
the water. And FINALLY Sotero was baptized. But does this end the stressful,
dramatic story? No, no it does not. That night it continued to be a disaster
with the movie we had planned to show while they got dressed, we couldn't get
it to work until they were already back anyway, so that didn't happen. And then
Sotero was late to church on Sunday and everyone was getting nervous that he
wasn't going to show up for his confirmation, but he walked in JUST in
time. So Sotero is now a baptized and
confirmed member of the church, but after Sacrament meeting he was out of that
building so fast he didn't even have time to congratulate him. We saw Nolberto
and asked him where his dad was, and he said he was waiting in the car. So we
go out to talk to him, and it turns out that Nolberto and Silvia, Sotero's
daughter, decided they want to change to the singles ward, so they won't be
coming back to our ward anymore. Unfortunately that means that Sotero doesn't
have a ride to church. They said they had to go for something and we could talk
about it later. So now we have an appointment on Thursday to go over to their house
and try to figure out how Sotero is going to be able to be an active member of
the church. Oh man. This family is so dramatic, like I can't even describe
it. But, I do have something cool to add
to this story. A few weeks ago we sent the missionaries down to Mexico to
Sotero's wife and his other kids, and two Sundays ago his wife and one of his
daughters were baptized!! And we sent the missionaries to the wife of another
of our recent convert's and she was baptized yesterday! Phew. so thats the end
of that story. for now.
My birthday was really really good. After the baptism on
Friday we went over with the Spanish elders from our ward, the English elders
that cover our area, and Sotero and Nolberto to a members house and they had a
joint birthday/baptism party. We had pizza and I got sung to in Spanish. :) On
Saturday the English elders gave me a present which is a giant anatomy book for
kids that they filled with sticky notes with ridiculous comments on them. its a
pretty sweet present, I just wish it wasn't SO giant so I could send it home
and keep it. Then on my birthday I woke up to our apartment decorated by
Hermana Maughan. She hung balloons from the ceiling in our living room and in
22 of them she put little notes with reasons why she loves me. She also hid
that happy birthday confetti you sent me EVERYWHERE. I found it in my boots, in
my scriptures, in all of my other books, in my wallet, in my camera case, in my
planner, in my juice, in my pockets, in my altoids case, in my retainer case,
on my toothpaste, EVERYWHERE. I also opened my presents from you. :) THANK YOU
FOR EVERYTHING! I was not disappointed. Then before district meeting we went
over the Bishop's house and his wife gave us breakfast. At district meeting we
put candles in those giant reese's you sent me and they sung happy birthday to
me and I opened a present from Hna Maughan. Now I don't know if you know this,
but I HATE eyeballs. Like they sick me out pretty bad. They are the one thing
that get me kind of queasy. Somehow Hermana Maughan found this out, so after
spending 10 minutes unwrapping her well taped present, I found 4 plastic
eyeballs. YUCK. :) but it was fun. And then as a district we went to Panera
Bread for lunch. Yesterday Cruz and her boyfriend Mario took us to sushi for my
birthday and used Mario's poker money to pay. :) So all in all it was a super awesome
birthday.
Other interesting stuff that happened this week. . . Well, Hermana Maughan has been waking up with
with eyelids crazy crazy swollen, like if you've seen the movie Hitch, she
looked like him after he had his shellfish allergic reaction. We finally went
to the doctor and it turns out she has eczema on her EYELIDS! and it was
turning into a staph infection. Luckily they got her on some antibiotics and
steroid cream, and her eyes are looking much much better.
Things are going really really well with Luis, who is still
planning on being baptized on the 24th. Like he is the coolest investigator
ever. We taught him about the restoration on Sunday, and we asked him how he
felt about what we were teaching him, and he said, "I don't really know
how to describe it. Its just like this big feeling. Its really big, but its
good." He told us how he wants to go on a mission, and he is hoping he can
be a good example to his little brothers and his mom. Oh man, he is so so
awesome.
I'm sorry to hear Dad is sick. Especially with bronchitis!
Yuck that is a huge bummer. I just hope he doesn't go through 2 bottles of
nyquil, a bottle of mucinex, and half a bottle of tylenol cold and flu like I
did. :) I hope you get feeling better soon Dad!!!
I hope everything is going well for you! I'm glad to hear
that Christmas preparations are getting all wrapped up! I am hoping to get my
Christmas package out to the family today, but I'm not sure. I hope you like
it, I had fun putting it together. :) I'm not going to individually wrap
presents though, so you'll have to wait til Christmas to actually open it. If
its gets there by Christmas that is. . .
Well, I think thats about all I got for now. I hope you all
have a good week!
Les quiero muchisimo,
Shaelyn
Pitchas:
1. Sotero Sarmiento, fue bautizado el 9 de Diciembre, 2011
2-4. what I woke up to on Dec. 12
5-6. district meeting birthday party. Giant Reese's peanut butter cups were my cake
7. Elder Jones with the eyeballs Hna Maughan gave me. Disgusting